|
Feeling some nervousness before giving a
speech is natural and even beneficial, but too much nervousness can be
detrimental.
Here are some proven tips on how to control your butterflies and give
better presentations:
- Know your material. Pick a topic you are interested in.
Know more about it than you include in your speech. Use humor,
personal stories and conversational language – that way you won’t
easily forget what to say.
- Practice. Practice. Practice!
Rehearse out loud with all
equipment you plan on using. Revise as necessary. Work to control
filler words; Practice, pause and breathe. Practice with a timer and
allow time for the unexpected.
- Know the audience. Greet some of the audience members as
they arrive. It’s easier to speak to a group of friends than to
strangers.
- Know the room. Arrive early, walk around the speaking area
and practice using the microphone and any visual aids.
- Relax. Begin by addressing the audience. It buys you
time and calms your nerves. Pause, smile and count to three
before saying anything. ("One one-thousand, two one-thousand, three
one-thousand. Pause. Begin.) Transform nervous energy into enthusiasm.
- Visualize yourself giving your speech.
Imagine yourself
speaking, your voice loud, clear and confident. Visualize the audience
clapping – it will boost your confidence.
- Realize that people want you to succeed.
Audiences want you
to be interesting, stimulating, informative and entertaining. They’re
rooting for you.
- Don’t apologize for any nervousness or problem – the
audience probably never noticed it.
- Concentrate on the message – not the medium.
Focus your
attention away from your own anxieties and concentrate on your message
and your audience.
- Gain experience. Mainly, your speech should represent
you — as an authority and as a person. Experience builds
confidence, which is the key to effective speaking. A Toastmasters
club can provide the experience you need in a safe and friendly
environment.
|